Originally Posted by
kmangel 
When someone reacts as your boyfriend did it spells relapse to me. Otherwise, he would have been understanding and not trying to make you feel you were wrong to question him. In fact he would have been upfront and honest with you that he was going to delete some calls and why so you wouldn't become suspicious. People with nothing to hide hide nothing. It's a red flag IMO. He's been caught up to his old tricks and he doesn't like it.
100% agree.......sorry to say this but "walks like a duck and talks like a duck...might just be a duck!" If he hasn't relapsed yet, he's on the verge! The anger he's portraying is a warning sign to YOU! Forget answering his phone and doing all this detective work.....he broke the contract, now follow up with your end of the bargain (whatever the consequesnces you agreed to). If he loves you and cares so much, he'll come a running!!