I am glad that you saw the light! My father used to drink himself into an oblivion, one time when I was in the 4 th grade he left me at swim practice waiting for him for two hrs, and it was late in the evening. Lord knows why I picked up his drinking habits after what I went through. He eventually chose drinking over the family, now he sits by himself in his house, ALONE... and drinks every night. My mother is happily re-married, and I am two weeks and some change sober, I don't want to end up like him (female version). Just stick with it, your daughter needs you. I know from experience