I've heard a lot of reasons why people can't work the program of AA...It doesn't bother me...It worked for me and a lot of people I spent an hour with this morning...That's all I care about...I thank God I didn't have a doctor that would give me that advice whether he had been in the program or not...I'm just glad I went on my own...It saved my life. I can't ask for more than that. Hey...Try something else..Try a couple things...Try something...If you can't find something that works...At least you know it's there...I wish you the best...