Update
so i recieved a call from my RA GF on friday. we discussed up coming court stuff and she told be that the SL she is staying at had took her phone and IPAD for a week and told her that she needs to focus on her healing. she told me that she and some others were doing "whippets"...i did not dwell on that matter and moved on quickly to the next topic of discussion. although i did not interrogate her about doing "whippets" and I left it alone, it does still concern me quite a bit. i just feel like she is not taking this as serious as she should be. any comments would be helpful, thanks!