Taking what works for me out of AA,NA,CA, church, the bible, buddhism, my family, my friends and leaving the rest really works well for me. I find in my recovery flexable thinking is the key to success, just becuase I cannot agree with another person on every theological point doesnt mean i cannot find common ground with most people. I look at myself like robin hood, i steal what works for me, make it my own, and i give what I have stolen to whomever wants it.