Sapling its fine, no need to apoligise. I got worked up pretty fast yesterday, was already agitated before I logged onto the site and took it on full force when a couple of people didn't take the hint, they were only trying to help me and I can see that now. Everyone comes from different backgrounds and walks of life dealing with alcohol and I`ll try to remember that in the future and act accordingly, Dee linked me another forum which will suit me better, thanks for that. No hard feelings to anyone