Originally Posted by
desertsong 
TU, you are right. Point taken.
Sapling ... will do what you suggested. I think part of my problem has been the "dread" of doing Step 4. Everyone says that's the hardest part, but after they finish they feel a sense of freedom that they've never felt before. I guess I should just do it and get it over with. No sense living in fear of it every day.
Kind of like the fear you had walking into your first meeting...All for nothing...It's not hard...Be fearless and completely honest....Ask god to make you willing...give you strength and give you honesty...You made your decision on step three....Use it on step four....It's in the directions.