Originally Posted by
Ann 
Oh Virgo, I know that sick feeling too well. And at a time of sorrow must make it ever so much worse.
It took far too many lessons before I finally had to stop my son from coming anywhere near my home.
Please change your locks and get an alarm (they have ways of getting in through windows or just breaking the lock).You did the right thing to charge him. Now just take very good care of yourself.
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother.
I eventually learned my daughter had given my garage door code and copies of keys to others who came and went with whatever was not nailed down. The alarm system gave me peace of mind.
I am so sorry for your loss, Virgo. Grief counselling on all counts may help.