Thanks all! It helps alot. I do have everything in place so that I depend on him for nothing except sick kids. I do not have a mom that will take kids that are sick. And friends have kids and do not want to get them sick. So, it is up to me. Problem is I have to call in by a certain time or I do get written up. I can not "wait" to see if he shows up. I have to call in a sub. Which I guess is the answer. He has not missed work once because of sick kids in the 11 years we were married. I am just afraid this is going to effect my job.