Originally Posted by
brownhorse 
I am going to have a nervous breakdown and no life because I have to wait to find out if he is dependable everytime he is suppose to be with kids.
He's already proven to you that it's a crap shoot on whether he's dependable or not. Remember, insanity is repeating the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.
I finally realized the
only person I could depend on was me when it came to my youngest daughter's RAF.
For me, expectations were resentments just waiting to happen.
I couldn't even depend on him for regular child support (at a measly $110 a month).
I learned to be 100% responsible for my daughter, actually both of my daughters, and pretend that RAF didn't exist, or my oldest daughter's father.
That brought much peace, and less frustration to my life.
I can't control what other people do/don't do, but I can sure control what I do.
Sending you hugs of support.
