It just gets worse. He took my son out at 9:30 at night to play video games at AH buddies house and they spent the night. Right before he left he told me he changed his mind and they were staying home. Then, my son gets home and starts crying because he felt guilty when I said I was glad they stayed home. Dad said some things are better kept to ourselves. I have not said a word to him. This is why I stayed with him. Then, he couldn't do stupid things and involve my kids!