We talked abou the original RO issue... and we certainly talked yesterday/last night... I didn't mean to make it sound like I was avoiding it altogether... It just gets confusing to know how much to bring it up and force her to talk if she isn't asking-- then again, I don't ever want her to live as I did, knowing something was wrong and never having it spoken about...
I think I am over thinking it and need to just talk to her and roll with it.