It dosen't sound snotty of you at all. It just sounds honest, dont worry about it, its okay to be wondering what is what with different meetings. You have really good suggestions above from Flyer and Sapling and not much more for me to add. Perhaps phone the local AA Inter-group or any AA local number and just chat with the member and ask first hand about different meetings in your area of choice where ever that may be, it dosen't matter its really just up to you.
Good luck!