Thanks all...of course AH passed out at 7 tonight leaving me with all 3 kids again. I might as well be a single parent. It would be better than the kids having a part time father living with them and my son says that we fight all the time...poor kid..I've toned it down around here especially learning about my own reactions at AL-Anon and the way it affects the kids. Don't know how much longer I can live this way.