Zoso....
Yestersay on another thread I commented on what a loss it was to your XGF because you had given her such a generous love ... and that most women would have appreciated it and reciprocated.
I hope my comment didnt set you off on negative thinking; how could I have been so generous of myself... and yet got nothing positive in return.
First off, during your whole relationship you had to be getting something you needed in return.... were there good times, or do you really think it was just your desire to 'save her' that drove you?
Second thing; just try to look at it as a growing experience. It wasnt really time lost if you learn from this relationship, and the result improves your overall life. She wasnt the 'one', but maybe this is what you needed to experience in order to prepare yourself for the 'right' relationship; the one that will last 'forever' and make you truly happy.
Yes I can say 'forever' because hey its almost Valentines Day and mushy stuff like that is totally acceptable. - lol
With my BF.... with all the relationships Ive had that failed.... this is the thinking Ive tried to maintain. So far.... its worked for me....least Im still Smiling.
Hugs,
Kel