Hi, also sending you a big hug
I have some experience. I was a daily drinker (wine) and one day just could not drink my glass of wine-never happened before. I was pregnant though didn't know it then. I was lucky as I had very very bad sickness so didn't want to drink though how much of the sickness was WDs or morning sickness I really don't know
I'm so sorry you've found yourself in his position. Even if you haven't decided what to do please start high strength taking folic acid-this is really important in pregnancy but more so for people who have been drinking as alcohol depletes the folic acid you do have. Please see your doc asap for health reasons and proper advice re your pregnancy, even if you look for another doc to discuss other issues with. Wishing you the best of luck.