I had a sponser who told me "we are only as sick as our secrets" When I was in rehab my wife did exactly what you did I was angry but now that I have some recovery I am thankful.He is there to get help if he doesnt put all his cards on the table it wont work.Be proud of yourself that you stepped out of your comfort zone and while it caused some anxiety you survived and it will make you stronger in the long run.Good for you