Hey Frozen,
I'm in a similar situation, my ABF is about 11 days into a 8 week programme. His counsellor sent me a questionnaire to fill in and send back. ABF will have to read it, reflect on it with his counsellor and then potentially share it with his group.
It was hard enough writing stuff down, not sure if I could have done it over a conference call. I was honest as I could be and sent it back. In one the answers I mentioned that I felt he had lost his job because of a spate of relapses last summer. ABF mentioned on the phone a couple of days later that he was acting as if he was still working at that job. I said that I thought he should be honest but not that I'd spilled the beans. The questionnaire should've have got there yesterday and I think he will have his next session tomorrow, so I guess I find out then how it went. I don't regret telling the truth, I can't lie for him anymore but I can't help but wonder how he'll feel tomorrow and what he'll say when he calls.