Originally Posted by
heathersweeds 
I think this is called not being the center of the universe lol! I really can't believe I was like this. I have always thought I was so kind and understanding. I am sort of embarassed. But....progress not perfection...
AWESOME!
This goes hand in hand with accepting that we have no control over other people's actions or opinions--something I have to continuously remind myself.
Congrats on your sobriety and clarity!