It is easier at times to focus on what is not going right rather than what is. There is a wide array of views on SR. It is helpful to look at what we have in common and the things we share rather than the things we don't. Everyone here is either trying to get or stay sober, and we all come to share ideas on what we think will help. We can even learn from those we do not agree with. I have been assisted enormously by this site.
Most posters will acknowledge that ultimately we all have to find our own way.
I found that getting a feel for SR and the various thread and sections very confusing at first and there are still areas that are unexplored.
If someone offends you , if you click on their name and scroll down you will see that you can add people to your "ignore list".