I totally know the feeling of "exploding". Today I am on physical and emotional overload! I am a full time student, a full time mom of 2 kids under age 6, and one is special needs so that takes a lot of extra time and energy. I hardly can keep up with the house lately in order to keep up with my schooling and my sons homework and just life. Usually my husband is pretty good about at least helping out around the house but lately I have had no help from him what so ever. So that is another thing I constantly resent him for, because I feel like I am taking care of 2 children and 1 adult child that should be able to not only take care of himself but be a team player in the family as well.
I hope I find a better balance too. Honestly, most days I actually do have a pretty good balance. Towards the end of today I started sitting on the pitty pot haha. So, I have given myself a few hours to feel that way and now I just need to get over it and move on to more important things. lol