I don't read every single post on here, but 99.999% of the 12 step related ones that i do read are nothing more than people sharing what has worked for them. There are other people who post about other methods that have worked for them as well.
Whatever issues you have are entirely on you. Not trying to be a dick, just being honest from my point of view. This particular forum is about as respectful and compassionate as you could possibly be in an anonyomous internet setting.
You do know that there are other forums within this website that address secular recovery and similar topics?