I took the initial $2000 out of my savings and then it came from both of us... $500 each time we postponed it because my AH didn't want to face the music and wanted to continue to be able to use his CDL. All together it's cost about $4000 so far and he owes another $500... I know. And thanks ANN... Now that I'm focusing on myself and my daughter, I already feel a sense of relief. I will always wish my AH the best but refuse to let his addiction drag me down. It already has taken so much away from me...