As angry as we may be when we get there, reaching the "enough" point can be the beginning of something new and better.
We can either live in the problem (their addiction) or live in the solution (our recovery) but we cannot live in both at the same time.
Move forward girl, and let the rest of your life include happiness, peace and joy. Bet you haven't experienced any of those for a long time. But you can when you are ready.
Starting anew with no money is better than remaining where you are with all the money in the world. You will survive, I promise.
Hugs