Yep, his actions are a definite trigger. Lots of Red Flags flying there.
Looks like it may be time to do some more work on you to repair your insides I found out years ago that I attract to me, folks that match my insides not my outsides. My sponsor suggested I take a whole year, live by myself, not date, and learn to not only love myself but like myself.
My reaction was 'A WHOLE YEAR' ah come on. But she was adamant. That whole year turned into 3 years, but it was well worth it. I found out things I didn't like about myself and had the opportunity to change me. To fix me. It has made a really huge difference in my life.
There are good men and women too out there. They come into our lives when we are ready for them.
Hang in there (((((sandrawg))))) stand back and WATCH his ACTIONS. They will tell you the real truth.
J M H O
Love and hugs,