Hi! I am new to this forum. I have been sober for 10 1/2 months and feel like I have a pretty good program underway. After being sober for a little over 2 months my wife confessed she had been haveing an affair with the neighbor acorss the street! I was crushed and came so close to drinking but my H.P. was really looking out for me. I have grown and learned and feel like I am working a dual program: one in AA and the other through marriage counselling and individual counselling. The guy was a long time drinking buddy and then an enemy and now the guy I have pure hatred for. I wish he would die a slow and painful death which he sort of is since he too is alcoholic. Anyway, I could go on longer but what I am looking forward is guidance to dealing with the resentment and moving on to healthier thinking.
