Oh, how I know how you feel. Only my AH has NEVER called me to come and get him. That would mean admitting that he had been drinking, which he would NEVER do unless he was caught red-handed. There have been more times than I can count that I have been so worried that I have gone to where he was and followed him home, without his knowledge. I am still married to my AH and we have two small children. I understand the worry. If it were me, yes, I would get him, out of concern for every INNOCENT person on the road he may harm. That's completely just me, though. It is probably me being an enabler, not allowing him to mess up.