Thank you all for your messages.
I am actually waiting with his dad right now.
I think I have already upset the poor man, but I didnt mean to.
We were just talking, sort of related to that newspaper, because he thinks just the image, word, etc. is bad for him to be around - as it would bring back memories.
And I asked him if he thought it was a good idea that BF was getting his blood drawn 2x a week with a needle .....
And that was not a good thing to say; he didt get angry; but he had never thought about that; and it sorta was a shocking and disturbing realization to him.
And were are still going to be here for a while, so Im trying just to keep quiet now. I feel really awful .