Man, your post hit home for me.
i don't ask the same questions over and over again. I just say the same things over and over again. It drives my 15-year-old son crazy.
He's in rehab now and will be back home in a few weeks. I hope to do things a lot differently--or at least begin to attempt to do things differently.
I am a controlling person. I can hardly believe it. Seriously, I almost can't believe it. But deep in my heart, I know it's true, and that I have to change.