(((Trying))) - for me it's not love, but it stirred up the old feelings of not being "good enough", abandonment, anger and a million other feelings I went through with him. I thought I was having a major codie slip, but was reminded that feelings are just feelings, and it's more about whether we act on them or not (and how). Trust me, I got suckered back in a lot of times, but the pain of staying gets too much and we have to get out.
I agree with ((Freedom)) about dog rescues. There are a lot of animal lovers here, and some are very familiar with rescue associations. I know that won't solve all the issues, but it's an option that may be the best for everyone, including the dogs.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy