Thanks... @blakemadison yes! it's like he has two personalities! It is unbelievable... I'm working on getting him out. He has nowhere to go at this point. Yesterday I had to leave work because he was calling & yelling... I couldn't bear the thought that my daughter was hearing him ranting and raving about things that happened months ago... & the threats... I was very close to getting a police escort! I came home and he was as sweet as can be... it is mind boggling. At least now I'm at the point where I no longer cry and wait up for him all night and call him endlessly. I simply go to sleep... no tears anymore... just anger and remorse at all he has taken from me. It is the past 6 months or so that I am really putting up my boundaries and yes he snaps. I am getting stronger by the day. Thank You!