Thanks Bill - I just saw your comment. I hope it doesn't look too stupid to make a decision over something like this. It's not just the dog. It's that HE can do whatever he wants on a whim, but I'm made to suffer greatly if I make a decision he doesn't like.
Everyone in her family said NO - I mean everyone. They didn't hesitate. Now he's going to be the hero, but in theory, if this relationship dissolves, the house that would contain him and the dog should be sold anyway. I'd have to force that to get my equity.
Life is just such a mess! Is it really possible to ever have peace of mind? I just don't know ...
