Well, sounds like your on a good start.
You have admitted: that you knew he drank before he joined
*So maybe ask yourself, why did you marry him then?
He has SACCO, that is great. But it seems that if they can maintain their
jobs. That's enough to stay enlisted. Sad, but thats what I have seen.
Im glad you found a Alanon class. It is valuable tools for you to use. The first
time going, you might be a bit shy, but keep going, it will change your world!
No one call tell you how to move on and when to move on, wish it was that easy.
When your done with it all, you will know it and you will move on..
Living with someone that is drinking like a fish, causes so much pain and unhappiness
When you are ready to live, smile, and love. (Without a drunk)..You will know what to do and when....
Ptsd's...is another one, that they never want to admit they have....
Im so sorry your going thru this...it's like a double whammy for you!
What about taking a break at your mom's house? Maybe that would be
good for you?