Thanks everyone for your very helpful and encouraging responses. Keithj - I dont know why I didn't do steps 6 and 7. My sponsor just said we will do them soon. To be honest, doing steps 4 and 5 on the same day was shatteringly exhausting - my sponsor is extremely perfectionistic, and it took nearly all day. I doubt if I would have had the concentration to do any more.
I think certainly something needs to be redone. The problem is that I don't feel 100% happy with my sponsor. She is VERY religious, and I am a total atheist; and it does'nt sit right with me to have to keep 'faking it to make it'. It seems the best thing I can do is to change sponsor, but there isn't much choice where I live. Oh well - at least I am sober again.