I'm sorry, but I don't remember ....................... is middle child the one that doesn't want to go to Alateen????
Maybe see if he will try that or a private therapist/counselor?
I honest to goodness do not know what else to do and that makes me very sad because I hate to see what this disease can do the the wife, and/or s.o.,and the child(rens) of the A.
But, please know I am sending good feelings and prayers, and have added you and your family.
Remember we are walking with you in spirit.
Love and hugs,