Originally Posted by
nicam 
Is this me attracting psychos?
...that it may be that you are attracted TO psychos. I always thought psycho women were attracted to me until I figured out that it was actually the other way around. They were attracted to me because I was attracted to them and when that happens they know they have a live one.
As for that specific guy? Needy and smothering is needy and smothering. And he disrespected your boundary. You don't need to know anything more than that. Move him on. Or just marry him and go for another ride.
Cyranoak