Hope2be, I feel your pain. I just found out one of my sons has been stealing from me. It breaks my heart. I too have decided to sell my house and find a place that is just for me in another location. Right now I feel like there has been another death in the family. It hurts so much. The broken dreams.
Good luck to you and know that there are a lot of us in your corner. It helps me to know that, and I hope you can find comfort too.