Welcome Stubbs, you're on the right track. Yes, missing out on the social aspect of it sucks, but you'll find other social activities that don't focus on alcohol. I'm an AA girl myself, because I like that it teaches me to tools to use throughout my new sober life. But if AA is not your thing there are plenty of other options.
From one functioning alcoholic to another, "just good enough" only gets you so far. I always made it to work on time, but I was never great at my job. I always spent time with my family, but I also was always thinking about when it would be over so I could drink. I always paid my bills, but my wine cost per month was as much as a car payment. I had no control over my thoughts or actions, and this is desperate living. Well done for recognizing this and making a change!
Wishing you the very best in your journey!