Thank you for the encouragement!!!
Last night we got the kids back from her ex's and had dinner. And it was pretty quiet. We did not argue. In bed I told her I love her and good night. This morning is pretty quiet to. I am preparing myself for the worst and hoping for the best. I am ready to be gone if it continues.
I want to have a discussion about where to go next. I would like her to talk to a counselor but not sure that she will. I am looking to go to an alanon meeting tomorrow night for my issues.
We will see where it goes. It is hard as she does not discuss much. When she is angry she just clams up. Most of our communication is through email and texts. I prefer face to face.