Originally Posted by
MyGirlGracie 
River...
I don't think any ONE of us could/would answer for anyone else, but know that true recovery for you and your wife is something I hope and pray for. I myself would like the opportunity to have this discussion with my alcoholic: the opportunity to make things right, to GROW our relationship and not just wish it would all get better by itself. I hope things work out for you both and I hope you continue on your path of sobriety.
We have been having this discussion, painful emotional discussions. I found out things i never knew. Things I should have known. We are trying to make things right.
I know you can't answer for anyone else. My reason for coming here was because my wife has apparently been reading here for some time. In the past I would of just lurked and looked around and read. I'm done with lurking and hiding now.