Hi. That's a good way to look at it and I'll think of that today too - actions speak louder than words. But, this time I'll be reflecting on myself, instead of yelling them at him next time he hurts me and tells me he loves me. And Gwenyth..I never thought of making him leave, other than divorce. Maybe that's a good boundary to start with. I spend so much time worrying about what he's going to say or do... reacting. This soul searching is tiring business
