I don't have any advice for you. I'm basically just sitting around and hoping my AH disappears eventually. I highly doubt it'll happen, because I think having random short contact with his children makes him feel like he's a good person. He claims he's sober, but he's still just as selfish. I don't know what to say, I don't understand why they won't just go away. Anyway, I'm documenting everything and hoping that one day if I need to move to another state I can use it all to help me leave.