This "friend" asked me to sign a financial program for HER to get a car before the end of the year
And I actually said Yes
I havenīt gone yet then this weekend I had time to think and went "wait a minute, this is not OK" so I am not going to actually do it. She canīt get one because she is divorcing but HOW IS THAT MY PROBLEM?
My Chinese sign is Dog and true or not, I feel often like the needy pathetic dog looking for approval as if others were more important for some reason. I am so sick of behaving this way.
I also learned this "friend" had talked about me behind my back.. made up so many things, I donīt know why she does it.. she has done me some favors but that does not mean she owns my soul does it... sheesh
Glad to know others get it and am in the same boat, codependency shows up in every aspect of life.. just noticing this now..
