Originally Posted by
luckylilshark 
he really doesn't seem to give a fck about my recovery
That's a warning sign to me! Recovery is the most important thing in your life right now...
He might be the right guy, but it might be the wrong time? I hear about people swapping one addiction for another, and I reckon it's pretty easy to get addicted to people.
Again, not saying he's a bad guy, or not right for you, but I'd be concerned at this stage. Keep up the friendship, but remember that you come first. If he's the one he'll be there when you're ready.