by detaching from the addiction and finding serenity I have found more space in my heart, more energy in my spirit (that had been getting stolen away by an addiction I can do nothing about) that space and energy can be put to good things...more love, more hope, more compassion in the world. don't let it leak away into addiction...let it fuel recovery in your own heart and soul...then you will be better able to share it with others in a healthy way!