welcome aboard MarciaMarcia
Many people have asked the same questions
I had to make a lot of changes in my life for sure, but I don't regret any of them - my life is immeasurably better.
None of us would be here if we thought we were losing out by being sober.
I know sobriety can loom as some kind of enormous undertaking but just take it a day at a time - the journeys the same as any other...one foot in front of the other
you'll find a lot of support here
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