Chino, I think I am going to tell him when I deliver his Christmas gift that we are going out of town. Since we aren't leaving until 12-23, that is still almost 2 weeks from now. Hopefully he is working then since his program has labor force available after 45 days. That way he will be busy with work.
I also think that I am awfulizing the whole outcome of him being tempted to go into our house. We have very close neighbors who are aware of this situation with our son, and we can let them know in NO WAY is he allowed to be near the home. Also we have a stay away order through his probation that he is not allowed within 500 feet of our home and he is quite aware of that.
I am not going to remotely bring this up with him though. I am just going to let him know we chose to see our family in San Jose and he is more than welcome to call us when he can on Christmas and everyone can wish him well.