So maybe I spoke too soon! She called tonight and said that she couldn't understand why I was so cold to her. And then she switched to how upset she was over how she went to rehab and how it was my fault that she was getting a divorce.
In regards to the SLH I said I am happy for you that you have taken the steps you need to get on your feet and maybe it might be better for both of us if we just don't talk for awhile. I knew she was trying to manipulate me and draw me in. Then she started with the typical stuff (trying to push my buttons) and I said I am going to hang up now and I did. It actually felt great. I don't hold a lot of hope that she will be successful--How does a SLH work?