It's not great progress, however I've made a small change in relation to my friends imminent bucks day/night bender. I'm not turning up during the day. That's when most of the irrational drinking will be done. I'm only going to go to the sports event & to see a show after. I'm also going to drive. These are only small measures, however I know they will help me in my endeavour to abstain totally, or exercise responsibility.
I plan to take this approach on my holiday too. If i fail in my quest for moderation I'll just go back to being teetotal. I've done it before & i quite enjoy the benefits.
Thanks for providing me a place to vent.