My sponsor told me to ask myself...What is best for ME in this situation? Many people have No Contact because it so emotionally sickens us if we haven't enough strength to detach yet. I have stopped calling and texting my AS. He never calls me. But when we did talk or see each other I would need at least three days to recover from it. So at that point...and at thepoint I am today....contact is non-existant. Also, you know who you are in your heart, and God knows your heart...who cares what other people think? Because they don't teuly know. They are lookng at you through the hazy glass of their ignorance and skewed perception. I judge others sometimes...am I right about them...nope...just being ignorant. But I am human afterrall and I have accepted that.
Today I will focus on me...or at least try to...and do what is best for me.